TO BE CONTINUED…..

So I went out with this PERFECT GUY on a PERFECT DATE. We had what everyone would call it, “THE PERFECT DATE”. This went on for a couple of weeks until one day I decided to talk about my past, AGAIN! Although I had told him everything about it earlier, infact I had told him everything on our very first date. To my surprise, rather SHOCK, he seemed to remember everything else except that.

I did not have a problem with him so graciously forgetting this minute detail of my life but what I had a problem with was the way he seemed to suddenly have a problem with my past. Everyone has their own choice to make and how they live with it is upto them . There should not be any JUDGEMENT. This was the principle I lived by and I continue to live by it. Little did I know that not everyone believes in the same. Because of this petty issue, we had a fight. And what might seem like a normal fight to everybody else, for us it was magnificent and definitely not in a good way.

We did not speak to each other for days and that turned into weeks. But somewhere I still had hope for us. We used to always discuss how we would celebrate our birthdays together and mine was coming up. So I thought we might forget about our egos for some time and celebrate, little did I know that the feeling was not mutual at that time. Not only did he not show up on my birthday but he did not even drop a single message or call. It literally broke my heart to see someone that I genuinely cared about not care as much. I waited for another day and then out of anger I decided to give it back to him. What other way could I think of other than the same old app, TINDER!!

If Tinder has taught us anything, it’s that people do derive pleasure from judging people’s looks and not always in a good way. You might feel like that’s a sure sign that people really are just shallow jerks. But when you’ve been raised to place such an importance on appearance, it’s hard to shake that old mindset.

Later I realized that he was upset with me because he saw my profile on tinder and thought I was cheating on him.

What I fail to understand is that I downloaded tinder after my birthday and that was only to make him jealous so where was he all this while? To this he had a crazy answer that his friend saw my profile on tinder a while back and to back up this up he even sent me a screenshot. I decided to post this picture and stated that it was a fake profile and that it was not me on tinder. But even that didn’t seem to make him believe that it was not me. So I finally came to my senses and realised that I have not done anything wrong so why should I give him an explanation, it’s not that I owe him one.

So finally I thought to myself that, “if you don’t move on from your situation now , tomorrow will be too late”. After which I decided to move on and he decided to come back in my life and apologize. You must have heard that there are always two sides of the story; Your side, My side and the other invisible side that is the TRUTH. We were so stuck up with the flattering ego in our boiling heads that we did not listen to each other until it was too late. That is when we realized that we were both to be blamed in this situation and not just one.

Well the good thing that came out of this was that i realized that not only was he a good guy but he also passed the “5 step test”. And everybody was happy by the end of it since we dissolved the issue and decided to give it a fresh start but as F.R.I.E.N.D.S.

So who knows what story is waiting for me next !!!

UNTIL NEXT TIME !