As I go through all the other interesting posts, I have this fear that maybe dating and dating app has been the talk of the town for way too long. It makes me wonder why everyone would make this a HOT TOPIC🔥. I thought it was normal to be on a dating app. I thought that since I am single💃, I have a legit reason to be on this app. Little did I know that my choice or my preference would be questioned in this process. People have now assumed that dating apps are not meant for dating but are meant for hookups 🙊only. The problem is when I joined this app I was not aware about this assumption. Little did I know that just cause you like meeting new people and having a good conversation with them, I was inviting everybody in my vicinity to judge me- as I was on a Dating app or rather a “A HOOKUP APP”. 🙉💏

The person sitting in front of me was not judging me at all but the people around me surely were👩‍👩‍👦‍👦👨‍👩‍👦‍👦👨‍👩‍👧‍👧👩‍👩‍👧‍👦. It is quite confusing to me as I thought that the vibe 🗨️ of two people who are meeting for the first time is what matters the most and not what the people around you think of you two. It is like a fat girl is ordering for a pizza🍕. The girl might love💖 pizza and the pizza might love 💖the girl back, but who cares, it is what other people think that matters right. Aaarrrgghhh !!!😟🤢 I have always been on the heavier side so I completely understand both the situations and the unnecessary eyes👀 that are being laid on you makes you more uncomfortable than the pizza ever could. What if the girl who is eating a pizza has been starving🤔 herself for days and has finally found the strength to love 💖herself and the only person or people (in this case) that are building a wall for that girl to reach the final stage of self- love are the pedestrians👫🏃🚶 or the people sitting around her giving her the nasty look.🕵️

While writing this article, I recalled something that I had seen and fell in love with. We all are aware of the amazing T.V show Friends and for those of you who do not know about it, let me tell you what I was thinking, the scene where Joey was trying to enjoy his 🍕 pizza and he was told that ” a moment on your lips👄 is forever on your hips” , to which he responded by saying, rather shouting that “I AM CURVY AND I LIKE IT” and he proudly ate the last slice of pizza.

So to all you nasty onlookers, “LEAVE THEM ALONE! LET THEM DO AS THEY PLEASE”🙏. It applies to both the girl with the pizza and the two adorable people trying to connect.